Hello there Guys and Dolls,
I am going to have to make this quick... it has become apparent that I like to blog when I am not suppose to, but whatever, I am on my time.
I am blogging about Mean Girls. The movie with LiHo was one of my favs but this is a different type of mean girl. These are people who treat you like you are SUPPOSE to be like them but not WANT to be like them, overall haters to me, but I cannot help but love, for they are related to me, so they are there.
Don't you hate it when you have people like that in your family that try to make you feel bad about yourself because you are totally different from them. I just turned 26, yesterday actually, and I am still in the midst of perfecting my own Mojo, yet my sister treats me as if I am incapable of doing so by telling me what I should wear and who I should listen to. She tells me that my friends are Whack and idiots all the time. She may believe that she is insulting them and not me but she is insulting me. I chose those friends, and quite frankly, I would not have chose her because of the negative aura that she sometimes bring. Don't get me wrong, I love my sister. But because I love myself MORE I dont let her get me down on my choices.
I know I am not the only one with this family "flaw" because I have heard the complaints several times from friends and coworkers. Thankfully, my "whack" friends are secure enough in themselves not to let it get them down.
You can choose your friends, but not your family.
I hear that so much, but I feel like family was definitely put in your life purposefully and there is definitely something to get from them. They are like the guaranteed friend... the people that you don't want to like but you have to accept them and their differences.
The most important thing I want anyone who stops by to read my blog, whoever you may be, is to always stay true to yourself. You can't let anyone else define you. Not your friends, family or peers. Loving yourself first is what is going to get you through life
Off to hustle with the Mean Girls, i.e. my sister.
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